Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Divorce to wife for suicide threats to husband amounting to cruelty - Mrs.Sanjivani Bharat Sasane Vs Mr.Bharat Dashrath Sasane



                                  IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY
                                                 CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION
                                          FAMILY COURT APPEAL NO. 32 OF 2002

Mrs.Sanjivani Bharat Sasane
Age – 42 years,
Occupation – Household,
Residing at Gitanjali, 23 Ashoknagar,
Pune – 411 007. ...Appellant

Vs.

1) Mr.Bharat Dashrath Sasane
Age – 44 years,
Occupation – Business,
Residing at 49, Ashoknagar,
Pune – 411 007.

2) M/s.Sankalpan Shelters,
A partnership firm, registered   …Respondents
under Indian Partnership Act, 1932
having its office at :
107/108, City Mall, Ganeshkind
Road, Pune.
Through its partners :
a)  Vinodkumar jaichandlal Mittal
b)  Mukesh Yeole
c)  Ravindra Jagtap.
(Addresses : as above)

Mr.Amol Deshpande for the Appellant.
Mrs.Usha Purohit for the Respondent No. 1.
Mr.Sidharth Ronghe for Respondent No. 2.

CORAM:   S. A. BOBDE &
S. J. KATHAWALLA, JJ.

DATE: NOVEMBER 18, 2009.

ORAL JUDGMENT (Per S.A. Bobde, J.) :

This is an Appeal filed against the order of the Family Court I, Pune, dated 22nd February,  2002 allowing the Petition  filed by the Respondent husband for divorce under section 13 (1)  (ia)    of     the    Hindu    Marriage     Act,   1956,   on  the  ground  of cruelty.   The Respondent husband approached the Family Court under the aforesaid provision for divorce on the ground of cruelty  based mainly on account of the behaviour of the Appellant which included   threats   and   attempts   to   commit   suicide   on   various occasions and for gross misbehaviour with him.

2. The Family Court after considering the evidence came to the conclusion that the Appellant had treated the Respondent husband with cruelty and the Respondent was therefore entitled  to  decree  of   divorce.     At   the  outset,   it   may  be  noted  that  the  Family  Court   in  paragraph  17  has  stated  that  several  attempts  were made by the Appellant to stall the hearing of the case by not offering   herself   for   cross­examination   and   that   she   made   all attempts   to   prolong   the   matter.       When   the   Court   tried     to prevent   such   attempts,   she   even   moved   a   transfer   petition. Apparently,   in   the   past   too,   such   transfer   petitions   had   been moved by the Appellant in respect of the earlier Presiding Officer, which was rejected.      When we  expressed a desire to interview the  parties.  The  Respondent  husband  alone  appeared  before  us and the Learned Counsel appearing for the Appellant stated that he has instructions to say that the Appellant is away at Rishikesh. The   learned   counsel   for   the   Respondent   stated   that   the Respondent husband had seen the Appellant in Pune the previous day,   i.e.   on   17th   November,   2009,   and   is   willing   to   file   an affidavit.     We   did   not   consider   it   necessary   to   go   into   this controversy and prolong the hearing of this case.

3. The   learned   Family   Court   has   decided   the   matter  purely on merits.  The learned Family court after considering the  evidence on record came to the conclusion that the Appellant has  repeatedly  threatened  suicide  and  in  fact  made  it  embarrassing  and  dangerous  for  the  husband  to  cohabit   with  her  peacefully.  In  fact,   the  Appellant   in  her   written  statement   stated  that  she  wanted “Kaydeshir Farkat” i.e. judicial separation.  It is clear that  the Appellant does not wish to cohabit with the Respondent.

4. Coming  to  the  findings,   the  Family  Court   accepted the Respondent’s  case  that the  Appellant is unable to get along with  any  person  in  the  Respondent’s  family.     The  learned  Trial Court   has   referred   to   the   entire   evidence   of   the   Respondent wherein   he   has   deposed   about   the   attempts   made   by   the Appellant to commit suicide and about her quarrelsome nature.  Undoubtedly, the Appellant herself has admitted in paragraph 3 of   her   Written   Statement   that   on   4th   February,   1994   she attempted to commit suicide by jumping into the Mula River. In paragraph  14,   she   has  clearly   admitted  that   on  that   day,   she climbed the bridge in order to jump, but was saved by passers­by. Further   in   paragraph   6   of   the   Written   Statement,   she   has admitted that in October, 1991 she consumed insecticide and as a result was admitted to the Model Colony Hospital.  She further admitted  in  paragraph  16  that   she  poured  Kerosene  on  herself with  the  intention  to  commit   suicide,   but   she  stopped  short   of setting herself alight for the future of the daughter.

5. In Naveen Kohli v. Neetu Kohli [(2006) 4 SCC 558], the Hon’ble Apex Court held that cruelty may be mental or physical and  intentional   or   unintentional.       The  Court   broadly   defined ‘mental cruelty’ to be such conduct, which inflicts upon the other party such pain and suffering as would make it not possible for that   party  to  live   with  the  other.     We  have  no  hesitation  in coming to the conclusion that the behaviour of the appellant in persistantly threatening and attempting suicide  would constitute mental cruelty in law so as to become a ground for divorce.    The threat  of  personal  violence  or  attempt  to  commit   suicide   is a      recognized    instance    of     cruelty     [  Dastane  v.     Dastane ( AIR 1975 SC 1534]. Under the circumstances, it is not possible for a couple to peacefully carry on a married life, if one partner repeatedly threatens to commit suicide in public and within the home  in  this  manner.     In  our  view  the  Trial  Court   is  therefore correct in its finding that the repeated attempts on the part of the Appellant to commit suicide constitutes mental cruelty.

6. We   find   that   the   Judgment   of   the   learned   Family Court  also  takes  into  account  evidence  of  one  Dr.   Vidyadhar  J. Watve  (P.W.No.3),   who  is   a  Psychiatrist   and  one  Dr.   Subhash Kale,   who   gave   evidence   about   the   mental   disorder,   i.e. ‘adjustment   disorder’   and   of   depression,   which   the   Appellant suffers   from.  The  learned  counsel   for   the  Appellant   submitted that   the   ill   treatment   by   the   in­laws,   led   to   the   attempts   to commit   suicide,   and   therefore,   since   the   fault   lay   with   the Respondent’s family he was barred from pleading ‘cruelty’.   It is not possible to accept this submission in the present case, since it appears that the attempts to commit suicide continued even after the couple moved to a new place  and  began  to  live  separately from  the family  of the  Respondent husband.     The  Trial   Court has   observed   in   paragraph   20,   that   in these circumstances, the Respondent has stated that sometimes, he may have behaved in a manner which appears cruel to the Appellant, but this was only  to  prevent   her  from  committing  suicide  or  to  prevent   her from  causing  any  bodily  injury  to  herself.     There  are  instances where  the  Respondent   had  to  physically  prevent   the  Appellant from   committing   suicide,   such   as   when   she   attempted   to consume insecticide in the bathroom, in October 1991.   In fact, the learned Trial Judge has observed that even during the Trial, the  behaviour   of   the  Appellant   was  not   normal  and  she  often seemed to lose her mental equilibrium.  

7.   Learned Counsel for the Appellant also brought forth the  contention  that  by  indulging  in  physical   relations   with  the Appellant   after  the  alleged  acts  of   cruelty,   the  Respondent  had condoned these acts and was hence barred from a divorce decree by section  23  (1)(b) of  the  Hindu Marriage  Act,  1956. We  find that   there   is   no   merit   in   the   argument.   ‘Condonation’   means forgiveness   for   the   offence   and   restoration   of   the   offending spouse  to  the  status   quo  ante  [Dastane  v.   Dastane  (supra)]. However,   condonation  is   meaningless   unless   there   is   some change  in  the  person  who  seeks   forgiveness   or   who  has  been forgiven.   As   rightly   pointed   out   in  Puthalath   Chatu   v. Nambukkudi Jayasree (AIR 1990 Ker 306), condonation rests on some assurance to the offended spouse, of retracement of the offending spouse, from the wrong path hitherto followed. In the present   matter,   even   if   the   Respondent   did   have   physical relations after the alleged acts of cruelty, there was no change in the attitude and behaviour of the Appellant, who continued even thereafter   to   threaten   and   attempt   to   commit   suicide.   This argument is hence rejected.

8.   The parties have been living separately for a period of approximately  8  years   before   the  filing  of   Petition  and  as   the matter  stands  now,  the  passage of  time  is  about  17  years  since they last resided together.   The attempts at reconciliation, prior to   commencement   of   divorce   proceedings   in   the   Trial   Court failed   and   there   does   not   appear   to   be   a   chance   of   any reconciliation   at   present,   having   regard   to   the   facts   and circumstances   of   the   case.     We   have   considered   the   entire evidence of the parties and the arguments advanced by the by the Learned Advocate for the parties and we find that the conclusion of  the  Trial  Court  regarding cruelty  faced  by  the  Respondent  is  not liable to be interfered with.

9. The learned counsel for the Appellant submitted that the Appellant has been awarded maintenance of Rs.3,000/­ and that  their  daughter  was  initially  awarded  a  maintenance  of   Rs.2,000/­,   but   that   has   been   increased   to   Rs.5,000/­.  The Appellant submits that the maintenance payable to the Appellant should  also  be  increased.   Ms.  Purohit,   the  learned  counsel   for the   Respondent   No.   1   states   that   the   Respondent   has   also deposited   Rs.5   lakhs   towards   the   marriage   expenses   of   the daughter.  We leave the question of enhancement of maintenance to   be   agitated   before   the   Family   Court   by   adopting   proper proceedings.

10.   The learned counsel for the  Appellant also made an attempt  to  argue  the  question  of  succession  by  the  daughter  of the   property   belonging   to   the   Respondents,   however,   these proceedings are not appropriate for any decision on this issue.

11. In  the  result,  the  Appeal  is dismissed.   However, there will be no order as to costs.

12.   This being the view which we have taken, we do not  consider  it  necessary  to  decide  the  Civil   Application  Stamp  No. 26752 of 2008 and it is hence disposed of.  The Civil Application No.329 of 2008 for injunction is also disposed of.

Order Accordingly.
(S. A. BOBDE, J.)

(S. J. KATHAWALLA, J.)

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